vexed

have so many things on my head now... very vexed... very very vexed...

on him...
i really dunno how to handle him... when is he gg to grow up... when will he be more mature n sensible... even without working, he's not contributing much to the household... we had 2 quarrels over how messy n dirty the flat was... and why isnt he studying when his exams are in 1 week's time? is having teh w his frens, playing psp, watching tv n swimming more impt than everything else? where is the sense of priority? and having been jobless for 3 whole months, why does he still wanna play mj w teddy when we lose 90% of the time? i have to settle all the bills, clean up all the shit at home, and now what? mahjong debts? geez why... why is he so insensible... tell me when i can rest n not worry abt everything at home...

on my boss...
generally she's a very nice lady... but she seems to have no choice but to put on a strong n even fierce facade... but why... sometimes we really have no idea abt her mood swings and via ydy lunch, apparently she does noe tt she has mood swings n tt she can be quite scary at times... but after several lunches w several pp, it seems tt most bosses are the same... is it inevitable tt they gotta be liddat? if it's me, i'd be super tired all the time... since we spend so much time at work... and at home, there's neverending worries for me to stress abt...